[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit Chat for November 2022 #145092

Thanks Gailster
The holiday that worries me more than others us New Year’s Eve. We were always alone watching the NY celebrations. Then we called everyone at midnight. I can’t imagine sitting all by myself. Bobby will be downstairs, but it will be so terribly Linley on New Years Eve
Ive had Gary in my life on New Years Eve for 27 years. Now I’m back to the old days when I was divorced. Only this time I’m old and cannot go out with friends that night anymore It’s the loneliest night of the year.
It is what it is, as I say
His obit was in the Boston Globe today
Luv u
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit Chat for November 2022 #145088

Hi Colleen
I always say what you miss the most is their voice….. snd the deafening silence
Tomorrow everyone goes back to school and work Life goes on.
Adele🙃🙃😱😱🥲🥲

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit Chat for November 2022 #145073

Hey girls
It’s the quiet. It’s nit talking to him all day long.
Everyone wondered why it didn’t bother me to be home all the time. It’s because he was here. I was rarely alone. I always had my best friend to talk to. To watch our special shows with. To eat with. We didn’t have to go out to dinner. We had take out from our favorite places and my Boofetti dishes snd serving pieces to feel special I want to throw out every BooFetti thing I gave. Now they make me sad
Thanksgiving is coming in 2 weeks. We have 4 seats open now. Heather, Tillie, Benny, and Gary. ( Pinas divorcing Benny) That’s a lot of people. Now we have 10 for dinner. We have 10 here in any given day!
They were all babysitting me before the Shiva. Everyone was gone accept JJ and Bobby, who is downstairs. Bobby did come up a bit this am. Now Amanda is here. JJ had coffee with me this am
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit Chat for November 2022 #145056

Hello everyone
Gary didn’t make it. He’s gone. He’s with Heather, my mother and all his relatives and friends.
Not much more I can say accept my life will be dramatically different and very quiet. And sad. I have a whole new definition for sad today
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit Chat for November 2022 #144913

Yes. Still sedated.
The balloon was put in before the surgery, to save the heart until they operated. Joe was having multiple heart attacks all day long. I counted 8 until the surgery 😱😱🙏🏻🙏🏻
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit Chat for November 2022 #144909

Hello everyone
He is still in respirator, plus the balloon in his heart
He did pass the neuro test, so we know he is still in there!!! That’s encouraging!
Please keep praying!
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit Chat for November 2022 #144889

Hey Gailster
You know what the worst thing is? Not being able to talk to him. I have never ever gone a day without talking to him.
Please keep the prayers vomkng
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit Chat for November 2022 #144885

Hi DD
I’m still trying to get my Halloween put away. JJ helped by getting everything on the kitchen table. Now I just have to pack it away.
I’m hoping to get them boxed up by tomorrow. If not? I can finish Sunday
Gary is still critical. His blood pressure was real low. Today they were able to back off a little on the blood pressure meds. Tiny bit of progress saying he is still very sick. Not taking out the breathing tube. Please continue to pray. It’s going to be a very long road, as long as he continues to improve. It didn’t look good this am, and then we finally got a glimmer of hope
His cardiac number went to 2. Normal is 2.5, so that is very good. Any progress is fabulous.
Please continue to pray
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit Chat for November 2022 #144865

Hey guys
He’s out of surgery. Triple bi pass Not out of the woods. Dr keeps saying he is medium to high risk because if his weight and other medical issues. If they can remove the breathing tube tomorrow am, that will be a huge step forward. Prayers needed
Luv u guys. I do appreciate your support and prayers.
Adele

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