[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit-Chat May 2022 #140894

Thank you DD
It did make me smile
I woke up this am realizing my first thing to do is no longer necessary. To call the nursing home and see how she is She is flying with my father and daughter. No more pain or trapped in a tired body.
But there is an awful pit in my stomach. The thing you miss the most is their voice. I gave her voice on two videos. I am grateful for that, but it may be too painful to play
Luv u
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit-Chat May 2022 #140868

Hi Colleen
Thank you so much for being so supportive
She was very agitated yesterday. They added addivan to help her calm down. Nurse said this is normal. Her body is dying and her brain is fighting it.
This just plain sucks. Waiting for wheelchair to be delivered
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit-Chat May 2022 #140855

Hey Gailster
Thank you for the kind words. There is nit much that can be said at this point. It’s the same with any loved one at end if life. Thank God we have professionals who specialize in this difficult life situation and are kind to our loved ones
Marissa and Bobby went today snd both of them had a hard time. As time goes in, I don’t think it will get any easier
Please send prayers
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit-Chat May 2022 #140848

Gailster
I just did a long post and it disappeared! I just don’t have the energy to do it again
That’s a comforting saying you posted thanks
Hospice said it will be less than a week for Tillie. Had the girls day set to get their memory boards together
Changing the funeral around a bit. Kids want a viewing a and some time
Yesterday was a vetting emotional day with talking to Hospice people
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit-Chat May 2022 #140807

Hi Colleen
I hope you get to go to Brnson soon, and the weather cooperates
Video chat is the best thing about cell phones. It keeps you in touch during hard times
They did finally give me a message about a credit
I’m still waiting for checks to clear that I wrote to the nursing home so the application will be approved. This is just plain crazy
I m so exhausted today. I think it’s emotional🙏🏻😱
I hope your day goes well!
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit-Chat May 2022 #140805

Hey Gailster
I finally got a message they are doing a credit.
Tillie is in Hospice. They are adding more pain killers and putting her on an air mattress I am surprised every night when we don’t get the final dreaded call.
Happy Birthday to Greg!!! Is he having his favorite birthday cake? Hope you two have a good day!
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit-Chat May 2022 #140719

Hey Colleen
I got to video chat withTillie. She looks awful. Worst than two days ago. Tom how she looks you would think she is not going to be around much longer
I tried to send her flowers for her birthday and Mothers Day. I was too late and could only get a delivery Monday. So, I went through Instacart and tried to get roses. When they picked the order, all the roses in cases were gone. So the mince young kid got 2 orchids for me, and delivered them to nursing home. But, he ended up charging me 160.00 instead of 60.00 It was twice the price of the roses, instead of what he actually got. Another problem to resolve. I contacted Instacart but they have not fixed it yet. Why does everything have to become a problem? It is what it is.
I hope you and Ron have a good time in Brandon. Wishing you a great Anniversary celebration!!!
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit-Chat May 2022 #140717

Omg Gailster!
That pic is adorable!!

Happy Mothers Day to everyone…. Human or animal
Adele

[adele shanbar]

in reply to: Chit-Chat May 2022 #140680

Hi Colleen
Tillie was definitely imagining the coats.
Happy anniversary. I hope you have a good time in Branson. What will you do there? Anything special?
Got call today saying they want to put Tillie in Hospice. I agreed. Told the kids. She has lost a lot of weight. Over 50 lbs. she stoped eating two days ago
I really hope you have a great time. You both deserve it!!
Happy Mothers Day!!
Adele

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